One of the most important qualifications that each person should have is tolerance . Most of the problems that we face today result from the lack of tolerance to each other. Despite this, we can solve these problems . To illustrate , when someone steals your money, instead of getting annoyed and shouting at him/her , you may look for the reasons behind this situation . It might seem difficult to do, but you may find many reasons lying behind this like illness , poverty or having problems with family. Although most people know that everyone should be tolerant , they have difficulties in realizing tolerance in their lives. What would you do if someone swear to you , even when there is no conflict between you? Swearing to him/her back will – of course - not be a solution to that. Moreover , it may cause more troubles like a fight. Hence, you should at first try to keep your patience and to look for a solution to this. That’s why it is easy to do a favor to somebody who has done a favor to you. Although it is hard, doing a favor to someone who has done a bad behavior to you is a better solution. Also, this solution has a lot of advantages not only to you but also to the country we live in. To exemplify, when you show your tolerance to the people, they can easily get how to show their tolerance to other people. This situation may last forever when you think in an optimistic way. Besides, the fact that you show your tolerance will make people have very good opinions about you. So, you will have a lot of friends who love you so much especially because of your good behaviors. This means that you will have “real” friends and their number will increase day by day. In spite of these advantages, there are still many people who think that they should not keep silent when they come across a bad behavior. For them, they are defending themselves , yet this is not a defend according to me. For me , this is just a selfishness because they only think about themselves , not about the problems the others face. All in all , we should be tolerant to everyone and we should show our tolerance both for ourselves and for this world.
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